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Showing posts with label EXPLODE GOD - just me being his child. Show all posts
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Tuesday, January 25, 2011

no.20 explode the plans man!

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. (NIV) - Jeremiah 29:11
ya great. like i'm so looking forward to all these plans... (like joseph had to rot in jail for a while, like jonah had to stay fishy for a while, like job had to lose almost everything but got to keep his sanity)... at least this helps to make only one plan sound really exciting, dudes and chicks... >>> the finish line!!! well, then, thank God there is a finish line lol cos i'm betting my life he'll be waiting there for me :P

Barry Aw ‎@nette : what was it that you took??  

Jeannette Teo blast! was it the humanity pill or the insanity pill..?? think it might have gotten mixed and shaken and stirred, with a twist of lemon. cheers


Sunday, October 3, 2010

no.18 Ah?? Me, A Missionary??!

http://www.omfisaan.org/?p=426

writer: Marten Visser


How do you know whether you have a call to be a missionary? People often ask me this, especially young people. My best answer is: the question is wrong.

 
The Bible does not teach us that God reveals His children His plan for their lives. That is also true for missionaries, as well as for pastors and church leaders. Many people are looking for a special calling from God when they are thinking about missionary work or serving in a church. I want to be clear about that: That is not necessary.

People are expecting a special calling through a God-given impression, a Bible text that speaks in a special way to your heart, or special circumstances that point the way. But: an impression is just an impression. A Bible text means what is says in the context of the Bible. Special circumstances can always be explained differently.

To look for God’s guidance in this way therefore leads to a lot of uncertainty. That fact should be enough to make us question this concept of God’s call. The Lord is more than capable to make us clear what He means. That so many people have hesitations about their calling, is not His fault. It even does not have to do with that we are not listening. It mainly has to do with the fact that many people think about God’s call in the wrong way.

The Lord does not lead first of all through speaking to our heart. First of all, He leads us through His Word. In the Bible we find many commandments that teach us how to live. In the Bible we read what is important to God, and how he involves people in His plans.

As we grow in faith, more and more we get the desire to serve God. But how? The answer is simple: you may decide for yourself. God gives His children the freedom to, within the boundaries of His revealed will, make decisions for their own lives.

So whether you become an accountant in the US, build an electricity network in rural Africa, or plant churches in Thailand, it’s all good. Whether you volunteer for your church, start a Bible study with unchurched people, expend your energy in raising your children in the fear of the Lord, or show the members of your sports club what it means to live with Jesus, it’s all allowed.

In saying this, I do not mean that these are all good things, and that you have to find out what God’s intention for you personally is. No, these are all good things, and these are all good things for you (with the possible exception of giving all your energy to raising your children, which I do not beieve is a biblical option for men). That realization takes away the pressure.

The most important is the desire to serve God. When you live close to Him, that desire grows. That makes the chance that you want to devote your life to full-time service in church or mission bigger. But how you serve God, and in what kind of position, will also be dependent on your ability and opportunity to serve.

Your ability to serve include your spiritual gifts, your talents, your experiences and your personality. These will all ensure that your are a good fit for some ministries and would be unhappy and, more important, less effective in other ministries. Your opportunity to serve is the circumstances you find yourself in. Your age, health, finances, and where you live are all important factors that determine which ways to serve are better or less suited for you.

The most important for living according to God’s will therefore is a deep and growing desire to serve Him. That will also be displayed in a character that is more and more like Jesus’. It a notable fact that in the New Testament lists of requirements for elders, always character traits are mentioned. An internal calling is never mentioned.

The only question you need to ask when you live close to God, is: “Does this honour God?”, and: “Does this suit me?”. When you have answered these questions honestly, in important cases together with other Christian whom you respect as spiritual leaders, you may continue on the path that seems best to you. You do not have to fear that you are missing out on a secret plan for your life that God has in store for you.

For God determines everything. He determines which number you roll with a dice (Proverbs 16:33). If even a small thing like that is determined by Him, you may be confident that He has a plan for your life. For He is a God who works all things according to the counsel of His willl (Ephesians 1:11). ‘All things’ certainly includes the details of your life. And HE will make sure it happens!

In the Bible there are many examples that God leads in a special way. In the New Testament it already seems rarer than in the Old Testament. It seems probable to me that with the completion of the Holy Scriptures the Lord allows His children to make their own adult choices, based on His revealed will.

This of course does not exclude that God may still make His will clear in a special way. But we should not be expecting that (neither should we expect that he will not), and we should not wait for it.

In summary: 
God’s call = the desire to serve God + the ability + the opportunity.



My reply:

thanks for sharing, Marten!

this morning i heard a missionary's sharing, and i thought... "what if i am called to be a missionary today... ?". so i decided to go through your website to look for a hint :)

your article makes God's "calling" clearer. aren't we all missionaries for God, everyday, everywhere, as long as the heart is willing? even if the path or the opportunity is unclear, i've to believe he will lead us according to his will, just as he had led Jonah, moses, esther, peter, paul, etc...

today, i'm reminded how God's way is usually never anything close to our way, and i'm also reminded once again to walk in faith.

blessings!!

Sunday, September 19, 2010

no.16 Heaven is where God is - & God is with me

Ephesians 3:20
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Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, 21to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.


every time i want to ask God for something, i hesitate. cos i know He will answer and deliver what i ask for, only in ways i do not like - he'd be ploinking me into some deep deep shit that i can't seem to tahan.

some people call this "suffering"...

When we ask God for Patience
- does he give us Patience?

When we ask God for Courage
- does he give us Courage?

What he gives us are...
OPPORTUNITIES.



my last prayer was so open ended. "Lord, what do u want of me and my life?" - i was too afraid to ask but i still uttered the words... yet, though i know what's coming (the storm before the sunshine), i never prepared myself for the unimaginable(s)!

so what am i rambling about?

i've prayed and now i get what i ask for...

i'm in deep deep shit!! It STINKS!

it's an answer for me to discover, learn, appreciate, embrace... through a series of trials and intense difficulties... God has answered, will answer again...

but i also just uttered another prayer, "God!! i can't take it any more! i feel like giving up... i can't go on like this! i don't want to suffer..."

and i guess i can see Him answer me with a little cheeky smile and a loving nudge:

the answer is "faith". 

wtf - wat kind of answer is that?

i got a hint of an answer at church yesterday. so through the sermon yesterday, i prayed for "eyes of faith"

- to see God - not through my eyes - because then, i'll limit myself, i'll stand too short, i'll be unable to reach, i'll be unable to see God's answer...

i have no idea how to proceed, except...

i must take the LEAP OF FAITH and trust on God's love. 
(and wtf does that mean??!)

so, i'll just plough on.

oh ya, ah ha, ah... ?? ??

after all, i'm a precious child of God...
And, i'm now in Heaven, where God will always be with me...

"Lord, what do u want of me and my life? 
I am here..."

me, nette

Thursday, July 29, 2010

no.13 PIG, HAM, BACON: COME! (http://www.omfisaan.org)


Story: Pig, Ham, Bacon: Come!
ref: http://www.omfisaan.org/?p=381#more-381
(http:///www.omfisaan.org)

Thai people have beautiful names. Only they are seldomly used. They are written in documents and said at official occasions. But in everyday life, only the nickname is used.

To outsiders, the nicknames can have a funny ring. ‘Bird’ is the most common name, followed by ‘Small one’. From a western perspective, that is quite accurate to describe most Thai, yet something doesn’t seem quite all right when a sturdy guy with a beer belly is called ‘Small one’. Yet it is as common as hearing a teeny-weeny woman being addressed as ‘Fatty’.


Nowadays, often English names are used. These names don’t necessarily need to be words that are fitting names to western ears. ‘Bank’ is the most common name. It sounds nice, and it clearly shows where the priorities of the family are. A while ago I met ‘Dollar’. For, his father explained to me, he had to work abroad to be able to pay the bride price, so he called his first child ‘Dollar’.

The English vocabulary of most Thai however is fairly limited. To keep it simple, common names within one family are A, B, and C. It starts to become a bit more confusing when English names are combined with Thai tone jokes. (Thai is a tonal language.) What are the names of your sons? Joe, Joe, and Joe. For a while I didn’t look too intelligent, but slowly it dawned. Every Joe had his own tone. But which tone belonged to which Joe never became quite clear to me.

The funniest combination I heard from a colleague. She was shopping when she heard a mother call her children: Moo! Come! So far, so good. ‘Moo’ means ‘Pig’, which hardly is a complimentary name in my book, but still cracks the top-10 of popular names in Thailand. But next came: Ham! Come! Bacon! Come! And there they came, running to their mother. She went home with her car full of meats.

My Comments:

hello Marten! hope you're well! love the website and stories... and what a lovely house without glass!

when i was young and lived near a local village in singapore, many chinese people were officially named after animals. one lady, who used to cycle by our home 2 hours every morning to help my grandma with housework, was called "Ah Zhu" (means "pig" in hokkein, a chinese dialect). another popular name was "Ah Gao" (dog). i've heard that the story behind naming children after animals was that the parents needed to protect their babies from being taken away by evil spirits. by calling out animal names, they hope that the evil spirits will be fooled into thinking that there are no children around... well, that's how the saying goes. anyway, i always thought it was rude to greet "Aunty Pig", even if it was really her name and she accepted it pretty gracefully.

sets me thinking about parents who will do anything to protect their children, even if it meant selling them or giving them away (this is very common in singapore too - but more in the past when people had debts and no money to feed their children - my own grandmother was one of these children who was "given away" - usually a girl is given away so that she can be of help around the house of the adopted family).

so back to my thoughts on parenthood - think it must be a huge comfort when any parent can understand and appreciate how our God is like a protecting, loving father, and that everything He plans and does for us are always in our best interest, even if it's a painful experience...

was just sharing with my 2 boys about how Jesus taught the Lord's prayer - Jesus starts the prayer as "Our Father," and not "My Father"... this helps me realize how wonderful it is to be given (a Gift) the privilege of being a child of God - not by good works, or by good behaviour, or by being born to a christian/catholic family...

i found it funny that the boys then ask me who they should consider their real father - Andrew or God? hmmm... got stuck there! lol anyway, my answer was simply this - Andrew is their "earth father" and God is their "heavenly father" - now they have 2 fathers caring for them at the same time, 2 fathers to run to for anything...

keep writing!! it's lovely reading the blogs and learning more about your experiences!

God Bless!!
jeannette